April 20th, 2007

The Truth Of The Matter

Recently Scrappitydoodah wrote about seemingly perfect unschooling families who have children that fill their days with nothing but impeccable manners and brilliance. She wants to know how she can sign up for such an arrangement.

HA! Have you seen that picture being passed around, the one with the picture of the two kids standing in the middle of a living room where they apparently just finished painting the flat screen TV and leather sofa with white primer? It’s appropriately titled “Times When It’s Okay To Use The F Word”.

Yeah, we have days like that. When you find Perfectville, let me know. I try to keep an upbeat perspective when I write my blog posts, but there are moments when I want to sell the whole package on eBay. I’ve even wrote the perfect ad copy in my head:

FOR SALE: One incredibly small, unbelievably disorganized house, fully furnished with a truly lived-in look, complete with two argumentative kids, one exhausted husband, two needy dogs, a few ungrateful cats, a cranky rabbit, and a weedy yard. All can be yours for a low, low price!

April 19th, 2007

Our Beloved Blacksburg Community

Tuesday night we went to the drill field for the Candlelight Vigil organized by the student association. The planned portion of the vigil was over rather quickly but when they announced the conclusion of the event no one left. Out of the thousands of people in attendance I don’t believe a single person left. Practically the whole field was full of people standing silently together, candles raised high in solidarity and remembrance. Norris Hall was visible in front and just to the right of us and although it’s stately exterior looked as normal as always, it was the focus of much contemplation and prayer.

For a long time we all stood quietly, hugging and offering other small comforts to one another. Then Amazing Grace slowly spread through the crowd and our voices grew louder as we joined each other in song. Shortly afterwards we swayed together as we softly sang the verses to Lean On Me. Strangers, people who had never met one another, offered words and gestures of support to each other.

The most showing moment of the community spirit and peaceful pride that defines this beautiful area was when the citizens of Blacksburg began chanting “Let’s go!” which was met with a deafening cry of “HOKIES!” from the students, staff, and alumni. As we chanted together in one voice, full of pride and hope, we held our candles high and remembered that not all was lost.

April 19th, 2007

Thoughts On The Tragedy

My mother woke me up Monday morning, calling to say that there had been shooting and a possible ongoing hostage situation at Virginia Tech. So few details were available at that time that we weren’t sure what was happening. We couldn’t get ahold of my sister, Laura, who was scheduled to be on campus that morning, so when the news came out that a second shooting had taken place at Norris Hall we were thrown into panic. Fortunately, she called soon after and we we relieved to learn she was okay. Unfortunately, by midday 33 other people were not.

So many of us here are still in shock. It hasn’t quite set in yet - the fact that something this awful actually took place. Harder yet to understand is that it happened right here, in our beautiful town. It’s too much for us to wrap our minds around. It seems impossible, and yet the painful truth is that it’s not.

I’ve felt for a long time that most press coverage is barely disguised sensational-seeking tabloid reporting and I don’t watch it anymore because of that unless there is something really important I need to know about. Having the national press this close to home really shows how absurd it’s become. It’s hard to avoid literally bumping into reporters. I went to the Holiday Inn across from the campus to return an item I’d borrowed and the place was just swarming with press. A large conference room near the lobby was set up as a CNN war room, with dozens of people furiously typing away on their laptops, making cell phone calls, and monitoring television coverage. Other networks had taken over the cafe and the lounge. It was a surreal scene.

But I digress. My point is that some of the questions and angles they’re using are just ugly. It’s not responsible journalism. It seems their only goal is feed the emotional frenzy and appeal to people’s fear and anger. What does that accomplish? How does this type of reporting improve our world or provide avenues of positive change for the people exposed to it?

It’s not constructive to tear the situation apart and encourage people to play the blame game when so much has been lost already. The national media seems intent on finding fault with VT officials with what happened. Apparently isn’t bad enough that 33 people lost their lives, they need to create more drama and stir up resentment and anger rather than letting the families of the deceased and the Blacksburg community cope with the difficult changes in their lives and move forward.

Two of the most annoying questions are the repeated hounding of the press with “Why wasn’t this prevented?” and “Why wasn’t VT better prepared?” These questions might arise in anyone’s mind, but there are NO answers. How could anyone have predicted that this would happen? No one can prepare for such an event. People want to believe things like can be prevented, and perhaps there are a few things we can learn from this, if we really take the time to understand what’s happened and why.

The tough news is that most tragedies of this nature are senseless and are committed by determined people who would find loopholes and ways to get around any safety measures in place. Several times it’s been suggested that metal detectors should have been installed on all the campus doorways. Seriously? Even if we are just talking about VT and not all the college campuses across the US, I can’t even begin to fathom how many hundreds of machines would be needed. Additionally they would require a person to operate them and conduct searches of folks passing in and out of every entrance in every building. And for what? If someone really wanted inside and didn’t mind care who they injured or killed, they wouldn’t hesitate to shoot the attendant. The same thing goes for people who’ve suggested that guards should be placed in every building. People aren’t thinking rationally when they ask why these measures weren’t in place.

For the most part, these things cannot be prevented but unfortunately, because people don’t want to live with that uncertainty, someone has to be held accountable. People need a living, breathing person to be responsible for this devastating event. Since the gunman is dead and cannot answer to his crime, the media is turning to VT.

There has been a lot of discussion about why the campus wasn’t shut down after the first shooting. That’s an unreasonable notion to even consider. Everyday there are approximately 40,000 people in and around VT on a 2600 acre campus. Think of it as a small town. If a domestic dispute takes place in one home in that town, and police officers have no reason to believe it’s anything other than an isolated event, does the whole town go into lockdown?

If this wasn’t a college campus but a small town, there wouldn’t be questions of what should have been done. It would just be seen as the tragic event that it was. Hindsight is 20/20. In retrospect, there are many things that could have been done, but I believe that VT did the best they could with the limited information they had at the time.

April 6th, 2007

Hear the Candidates Speak on Iraq

On April 10th MoveOn Political Action will hold the first of three virtual town hall meetings. Many of the top 2008 presidential candidates - including Obama, Clinton, Biden, and Edwards - will join the meeting to answer questions about Iraq and Iran.

MoveOn members submitted their own questions and then voted to select the best from the thousands sent in. They’ll be asking the candidates tough questions about their Iraq plans, and we’re gathering in living rooms from coast to coast to hear the answers directly. The mass media won’t be filtering our questions or filtering the answers - MoveOn will be connecting candidates directly to the people.

How to Participate in the Virtual Town Hall:

• MoveOn members will gather at house parties on April 10th to hear the candidates speak via an Internet based audio broadcast. They will also be able to see a map of all the parties participating and enter comments, some of which will be displayed during the intermission. You can sign up here to host or attend a house party in your area.

• The event will also be broadcast, with commercial breaks, on Air America XM Satellite Radio (channel 167). It will be re-broadcast without commercial breaks on all Air America local affiliates during the following dates and times:

o Wednesday, April 11th - 8:00pm-10:00 p.m. ET
o Saturday, April 14th -10:00am-12:00 p.m. ET
o Sunday, April 15th - 8:00am-10:00 a.m. ET


Join MoveOn.org's Virtual Town Hall: Iraq

April 4th, 2007

It Just Doesn’t Compute

I’ve been playing around with many different types of DVD burning software before settling on what to buy. Today I decided to go with Nero and called to place my order. In the process I found out that I must buy two separate, complete packages in order to run the software on both my desktop and laptop. WTF? I told the guy on the phone that was pretty stingy policy and he said (quote) “I know, it really is.”

I guess this is a popular way to do things now - my antivirus software is the same way. I had to purchase a separate license key and subscription for each computer with no price break for being a repeat customer. The only way you get a discount on multiple purchases is if you order 10 or more, which only a business would need. Special pricing is also offered to nonprofits and educational groups. It’s individual consumers who get the raw end of the deal.

Things didn’t used to be like this a few years ago, back when it wasn’t even common for people to have more than one computer. Today, more than ever, it makes sense to allow one user to have the ability to install software on an additional computer without having to pay for it twice. Because after, it’s not like I’m cloning myself here - I am still ONE user. Lots of families have a desktop and a laptop.

There are ways to certify genuine users and limit software copying between friends without having to put these punitive restrictions in place. This new policy seems like a great excuse to get consumers to buy the same product multiple times. What’s next? Will I need to buy several copies of Pirates of the Caribbean in order to watch it on more than one DVD player?

I think it’s interesting to juxtapose this development against the growing trend of free, open-source software releases. It used to be that free software wasn’t worth the time or computer space it took to install it. But now there are so many low-cost and freeware programs available that actually perform better and have more flexibility than their pricey commercial counterparts.

Think of Thunderbird versus Outlook. One is notorious for crashing, hovers about two steps behind in design and functionality, and has a zillion security problems. The other one runs smooth, is frequently updated, and isn’t plagued with security issues. Guess which one is free? Guess which one comes bundled with a bunch of other glitchy software that will cost you around $300? I’m not sure if policy makers at the companies touting steeply priced software with restrictive licensing realize that the increasing quality, diversity, and availability of freeware may very well have a detrimental effect on their sales.

In the course of speaking with the Nero service rep I realized it’s ridiculous to pay $200 just to run a DVD burning program on two family-owned personal computers. I mean we’re talking about software that only has one application here. Unless it can do our laundry and visit the dentist for us it isn’t worth the price, you know? After just a brief search online I found a small set of perfectly functional tools that will do the exact same job. They cover everything we need and aren’t nearly as space hogging and bulky as programs like Nero. It cost us a grand total of zero dollars. Freeware rocks!

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